How to Get Him to Fall in Love With You

Getting your husband to fall in love with you is fairly easy. The solution comes in a single step: you must fall in love with him first. If the world loves a lover, why will your husband lag behind?

The reason why I keep comparing efforts made in a friendship to those made in a marriage is because in both cases, you are making the effort purely out of choice. You choose your friends, and how you are around them.

Your marriage may be a commitment, how you decide to be in your marriage and the ways to uphold that commitment is your choice.

Coming back to friends, do you remember how you started to make friends in school? What is your earliest recollection? I’ve always been very physically expressive so my earliest recollection of showing a girl I was fond of her friendship was giving her a big hug! Maybe you lent a pencil without expecting it back, or shared your lunch with that special friend.

Children love with an innocent firmness. If they want to hug an adult, no amount of refusing will be enough to keep them away. As you grow older you start to think that the regularity of your expressions of love must fade with your age. You start to put conditions on love, and begin to accept conditional love as the norm.

Only you can bring yourself to love with that trust, even now. You may think that being hurt in the past gives you reason to hold yourself back.

If that were entirely true, you would not be reading this article. You want your husband to fall in love with you because you desire that feeling of being loved, and not having to hold back.

Not an expert in your relationship? Then do yourself a favor, and read the rest of this article. It's not as hard as it sounds, but it can't be done over night. That's why nobody talks about this when you are getting married. Because most people want you to believe that a great marriage is a turn-key overnight solution.

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To your perfectly successful and happy marriage.

Fatima Khan