About Fatima A. Khan
Assalam O Alaikum
It’s Fatima Khan here a.k.a Fati K.
I wanted to take a minute and introduce myself, and answer the obvious question you’ve probably been thinking “Who is Fatima A. Khan?”
I’m actually a pretty normal muslim wife who wanted to get my “marriage” under control. I wanted to be in a perfectly ‘happy’ marriage and decided that i would not stop at anything until I had this aspect of my life under control.
I won’t take up too much of your time with a long winded ‘sob-story’ about having a bad marriage, but I was going through a tough time in my life. I’d just gotten married – and had moved 10,000 miles to a new country with my husband.
I had NO IDEA how to deal with marriage… especially in a new place with all my comfortable surroundings and support system in family and friends stripped of me. I had no friends, no family, no one I knew in this new city and had never lived on my own before.
I was in a really tough spot. One night while talking to one of my best friends on the phone, I said ” I am going to figure this “perfect marriage” thing for myself, no matter what it takes”.
I’ll be the first to accept, it wasn’t easy to “figure marriage out”.
I spent the next few years reading a lot of books, listening to motivational tapes, attending seminars, taking up every self-help marriage idea out there – generally ended up trying out a lot of ‘crazy woo-woo’ things to get a perfect marriage.
To be honest, none of this seemed to work until I came across a few women who were NATURALLY having the ‘perfect marriage’. I was hooked and started hanging out with them on a daily basis.
Seriously, I’m talking about women who had figured out how to have the perfect happy marriage, and be able to communicate with their husbands without any arguments.
As I started hanging out with them more and more, I discovered that they were doing things which did not make sense from my perspective – infact they were doing things which were really against the grain of what I was being told in most courses.
They would often ignore their husbands when they got home and completely let them be… and in return their husband would be all over them after some time – asking them how their day went and what she’d been unto.
Or they’d tell them how one of their husband’s action made them feel – immediately after telling him how nice he was when he got her something nice… and their husband would end up showering his love on them even more.
I realized that the more I was hanging out with these married women – the more I noticed that the were doing things that were “crazy” from a relationship perspective.
I realized I must be on the verge of discovering something BIG.
Cutting a long story short, my marriage dramatically improved from just learning from these “naturals”. I took the things that I learned from them… improved on them since the naturals did not really know what they were doing or how they were doing it. So I put it all together as a system to work for me.
I don’t really like to talk about this aspect of my perfect marriage to be honest with you. If my family finds out that I had to ‘work’ on my marriage they’d think that my husband was an ape. If my friends find out how I got to this perfect marriage, they’d think I was nuts to begin with.
And the BIGGIE – if my in-laws find out what I had to go through to get to this amazing dream marriage, well they probably wouldn’t speak to me again thinking I was out to get them.
The fact remains however that since I implemented this system my marriage has had some pretty amazing highs. I’ve had some of the best times of my life – took vacations that would outshine anyone’s honeymoon, had meaningful conversations with my husband whenever I wanted to, have him FALL IN LOVE with me all over again, AND listen to me and share his feelings with me openly.
However, be careful what you wish for!
One of the things I’ve realized is that getting him to share his feelings doesn’t necessary mean that I will become “happy” on the inside.
Infact, if you believe that getting your husband to share his feelings with you will be the answer to all of life’s problems, I’ve got bad news for you…
But I can also tell you that just having my husband share his feelings with me, and having him there when I wanted to share my feelings with him anytime, day or night, in any situation certainly bought me HUGE benefits… and will bring BENEFITS to you too…
I now know something that I think is extremely important…
If you don’t know how to openly talk to your husband, understand him and get him to understand you, then you’re going to have a tough time in your marriage. You will probably go through life feeling “hollow” and completely “out of place”… maybe even un-capable of feeling loved.
It’s not an easy thing to explain to someone who doesn’t really “feel-it” but I feel you know EXACTLY what I’m talking about.
On the other hand, if you do know that your husband is on your side and will listen to you when you need him, this gives you a deep confidence and an inner calm that other people can sense INSTANTLY. This also gives you the freedom to be yourself.
Why Should You Feel That I Can Help You?
You already know that there are quiet a lot of people out there trying to convince you that they have all the answers to your questions.
To tell you the truth, I don’t have ALL the answers.
I do however, have SOME of the answers – and I think these answers are to the most important questions.
The next obvious question you are asking is “Why should I still believe what Fati K. says?”
And my answer to you is that DON’T believe me at face value, just because I am saying something – doesn’t make it ‘real’ for you.
However, I recommend that you take all of what I am giving you, all the material (my whole system) and test it out for yourself. Run it through, review it with a bit of skepticism and follow the scientific method to verify if it works for you.
I want you to “TRY” what you learn from me – infact you will end up using them in your marriage and your life and benefit from them immensely.
Before you go on to invest in any of my programs, I want to REASSURE you that all my programs – every one of them – comes with a “No Questions Asked 100% Money Back Guarantee”.
I will let you put my system through all it’s paces, take it too the cleaners, use the material and TRY IT OUT in the real world before you decide to keep it – for 30 days.
If you don’t get the results you expect IMMEDIATELY, then just send back the program… and I’ll refund your whole investment without asking any questions.
Infact, if at any point you feel that my program has not lived up to it’s expectations, or that this is not right for you – I demand that you send my program back and ask for your money back. Seriously.
I know you’ll find out for yourself that I don’t spend my time on things that don’t work, and only invest my time on those things that get BIG results – FAST. No compromise.
Once you have seen what this powerful program can do for you in the real world – and you discover for yourself that this is the REAL-DEAL… do I ask that you “believe” me.
I am a person and do have my flaws, but I also think that my programs are the best in the world on getting a perfectly happy marriage – and I stand behind them.
I honestly hope that you get loads of value from them and that you are able to BENEFIT your marriage and life immensely.
- Fatima A. Khan