Dealing With ‘Competition’ In Your Marriage

Let’s begin by defining the competition. Competition would be anyone who stands in the way of you and a blissful relationship with your husband.

Real-life examples include, the doting mother-in-law, the interfering parents (your own), nosy aunts, females in the workplace, the other wife, single friends of your husband who haven’t accepted he’s married as yet, sisters-in-law, female colleagues who insist on remaining in touch with your husband, even your first child can fall under this category. As long as she or he takes away quality time from your husband, you call it competition.

Now we come to the inanimate aspects that provide the same destructive distraction in your marriage. Top of the list would be, cell phones! Especially with wi-fi and social networks on the go!

A close second would be the television, emails, surfing the internet, sports (cricket for those hailing from the south Asian sub-continent), new gadgets and any other object that becomes the centre of your husband’s attention.

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